He only likes to treat his lover as something he must possess. He demands to decide everything from A to Z. He takes the right to check finances. Living with him means losing freedom but not fearing hunger. His defining characteristic is very easy to spot when you first meet him, as his spending habits are a powerful testament. Advantage: you are well taken care of. Disadvantage: loss of freedom. Never hope to reform this type of person. Especially, don't have a wild dream of stumbling upon a windfall after "our paths diverge."